Have you ever been so dehydrated that when you finally get something to drink, you don’t care what it is as long as it was cold and wet? It doesn’t matter much what it is because quenching your thirst is the only thing that matters at that point in time! This is ok on that super hot summer day but this doesn’t fly well in relationships.
Girrrl Stop being ‘Relationally Dehydrated’!
Most people would refer to this as ‘being thirsty’ and as much as I loathe that term it applies sometimes. Let’s define what relationally dehydrated is versus what it is not.
You are NOT Relationally Dehydrated when:
- You express your feelings to someone and be genuinely honest with them
- You proactively let someone know that you are interested - men aren’t mind readers
- You are showing genuine interest in someone who’s reciprocating that interest
- Participate in healthy relationships
You are Relationally Dehydrated when:
- You continue to settle for less than God’s best for you
- You continue to enter into relationships with men who are unavailable in one form or another
- You continue to pursue men rather that allowing them to pursue you
- Participate in toxic relationships
When you’re relationally dehydrated you settle for almost anyone and any type of behavior. Girrrl Stop and get something to drink please! Don’t be the woman that’s with a man just to say she has one. When the reality is with all of his junk and drama you don’t really have a man anyway. You end up having a bunch of headaches and unnecessary stress in your life!
Hydration in the natural comes about with drinking adequate water hence staying hydrated. Being the fabulous Christian woman that you are your hydration comes from the Word of God which is the living water! Just as Jesus told the Samarian woman at the well ‘whoever drinks of this water will thirst again but whoever drinks of the water that I shall give them will never thirst’ John 4. See we stay dehydrated when we constantly drink the water that the world offers:
- The world says, time is running out, you’re biological clock is ticking - this causes many women to go completely nuts and date the first man that walks through the door! This ‘fear’ leads to many toxic relationships and just plain ole poor decisions.
- God says, I transcend time - if we focused on God as the author of time, this would calm the angst that the world tries to stir up. He is the Aleph and the Tav (you may be more familiar with the Greek translation Alpha and Omega) which means he is the beginning and the end. If God has the start and the finish, why stress over the middle! Just remain open to the Holy Spirit and God’s direction for your life!
When we focus on God’s Word and stand on His promises for our life according to His Word, we will stay fully hydrated and be able to discern those sent by God versus the imposters. Knowing who you are in Christ and allowing God to make you whole and keep you whole is the key to never being thirsty for the wrong things again. See the woman in John 4 was Relationally Dehydrated, in other words she was a bit of a wreck:
-She had 5 husbands
-The man she was with currently was someone else’s husband (yeah everything is in the Book!)
However after her encounter with Jesus Christ, her life was never the same.
Girrrl go get a drink of the Living Water and quench your thirst!
I love this article. The drink that quenches your thirst and won't make you fat with added calories. Preach on young sister!!ReplyDelete
Ah man! I should've used that calorie analogy!!!! I love it :)!!!Delete
Thanks for reading!