Tuesday, November 12, 2019

#iSmile – Are You Packed Yet?


It’s been said that people may not remember what you said to them but they will always remember how you made them feel. This is how I remember Brock Benbow as one who would make me smile. I’m one of those people who if I hear someone laughing, I don’t even have to know what they are laughing at, I’m probably gonna start laughing too! Same goes for when someone smiles: you smile, I smile. Brock had a smile that seemed to be etched on his face, it never moved. I imagine that even the undertakers will not be able to contour his face away from that smile.



God decided to call Brock, my Sunday School student, home on November 11, 2019 at the tender age of 24 years old. So young, so sudden. I’m finding it hard to grapple with this one and I even find myself at times questioning God. Why him God? Why this one? Why now? The questions fill my head but they topple over when I re-focus on the fact the God knows best. I am grateful that I had the opportunity to spend the majority of the last weekend of his life with him. He came over to my house Friday night along with his best friend Lamont to help me move some furniture around and I took them both out to dinner afterwards. Ironically, one of the topics of conversation at the dinner table was ‘friendship’. Brock and Lamont affectionately talked about how they met and how their friendship had flourished over the years. They talked about things they wanted to do in the Youth Department at our church and just things in general. The food wasn’t that great at Cracker Barrel that night but I remember Brock ate his food with a smile regardless.

I saw him again on Sunday for our church’s 92nd church anniversary. All smiles again as he was donned in his purple to represent our current Pastor. He asked if we were all going to go to Mia’s house (my cousin) after church and we all agreed after some laughter about it from Minister D’Warren! As everyone gathered at Mia’s house the laughter and jokes commenced. I caught some of them as I was in and out of sleep but one of the last questions I remember asking Brock was, “Are you packed yet?” He was set to go on our Pastor’s birthday cruise Saturday, November 16, 2019. He replied, “No, not yet”. I said, “You betta get packed because Saturday will be here before you know it!” and he calmly replied, “I will, tomorrow”.

Tomorrow came and what I discovered was that he was indeed already packed and ready to go on his final trip.

Are you packed yet? Are you ready for your final trip when it’s time for it? I hear you asking ‘what exactly do I pack for that trip, what type of luggage do I bring?’ For this trip, you must prepare for it early. Your heart is synonymous with your luggage and you must carry certain things inside! Let your luggage be:

-Stuffed with the gift of Salvation (Romans 10:9-10)
-Layered with Love (Galatians 5:22-23)
-Jumping with Joy
-Padded with Peace
-Kindled with Kindness
-Growing with Goodness
-Filled with Faithfulness
-Girded with Gentleness
-Saturated with Self-Control

So, I ask you again, are you packed yet?

Brock is with Jesus now, cruising in heaven. I will miss his etched-on smile, his mannerly personality and his calm, even-keeled demeanor. I never imagined that my conversation with him on the couch at my cousin’s house would be my last conversation with him. You never know what God’s plans are and how any given day will go. What I do know is that I was blessed not just to know him but to have a relationship with him; a caring young man who was saved and loved the Lord!

I will truly miss you Brock but I know you’re with Jesus now in eternal rest.
So, I’ll just sign off with this:
#iSmile

7 comments:

  1. such beautiful words to describe such a beautiful soul, from the time I've seen him grown, from a kid to a man! R.I.H Brock #iSmile

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  2. Such Beautiful Words, to describe such a Beautiful Soul! A quiet yet infectious person, who I've seen grow from a Kid to A Man. Im blessed to have known him💙, R.I.H Brock #iSmile

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    1. Thank you. Such a sweet spirit, I will truly miss him.

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  3. This was so beautifully written. I feel like I knew him too. I'm so sorry for your loss and the the loss that your church family is feeling. I will be praying for you all. -Love, Lisa P. (St. Paul Community Baptist Church)

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    1. Thank you Lisa, please do pray for us and the Youth and Young Adults at the church, they are really struggling with this one. I appreciate you.

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    2. Thank you Brock for teaching all who came in contact with you how to 😃 in the midst of any and all situations. Your going home service was just as you wanted it to be. A HALLELUJAH time in JESUS. Enjoy being with Jesus and we will see you in that GREAT getting up morning. #i😊

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    3. Yes he had a Hallelujah Homegoing service!!

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